What should I do if my parent insists on going to work?

Try not to correct them outright. Instead, acknowledge their feelings and gently redirect their focus to another activity. Saying something like, “That sounds important—let’s have breakfast first and then check in” can help ease the situation.

How can I help my parent feel valued without returning to work?

Find small ways to incorporate their past career into daily life. If they were a manager, let them “supervise” a household task. If they loved teaching, ask for their help explaining something to a grandchild. Keeping them engaged can help them feel more fulfilled.

What if my parent becomes agitated when I try to change their plans?

Stay calm and patient. Acknowledge their emotions and try offering choices: “I know work is important to you— would you like to go after lunch, or should we stop by the café first?” This gives them a sense of control while redirecting their focus.

Are there resources to help Caregivers in this situation?

Yes! Unique Senior Care provides support, training, and resources to help Caregivers navigate these challenges with confidence. You can explore more on our website.