Angharad and Jo’s Story: How the Right Care Changed Their Lives

When Jo Elliott’s daughter, Angharad, was diagnosed with severe epilepsy as a teenager, life changed in ways they could never have imagined. From managing seizures to overcoming a life-changing accident, their journey has been one of resilience, determination, and the incredible impact of the right support. With the help of dedicated Caregivers, Angharad has regained her independence, rediscovered joy in everyday life, and built meaningful relationships along the way.

A Life Turned Upside Down

Until the age of fourteen, Angharad was like any other teenager. But when she suddenly developed severe epilepsy, everything changed. Seizures became part of daily life, and Jo, her mum, found herself navigating an exhausting and often overwhelming world of treatments, medications, and specialist appointments.

As a parent, Jo did everything she could to help Angharad regain control, but epilepsy didn’t just affect her daughter’s health—it reshaped their entire family’s life.

Angharad during rehabilitation

A Devastating Accident

Things took an even more tragic turn while they were on holiday in Cornwall. During a cliffside walk, Angharad had a seizure and fell. The accident left her with severe injuries, leading to nine and a half months in hospital and multiple surgeries.

For Jo, watching her daughter go through so much pain was heartbreaking. But in the midst of everything, something unexpected happened—after the accident, Angharad’s epilepsy improved. However, she now faced a long and challenging road to recovery in other ways.

Rebuilding Independence

With significant physical challenges to overcome, Angharad’s focus shifted to rehabilitation. Step by step, she worked to regain her strength. There were moments of frustration and setbacks, but there were also small victories—each one a reminder of her resilience.

For Jo, ensuring Angharad had the right support became the top priority. She fought hard to get funding for Caregivers, knowing that the right people could make all the difference—not just in providing practical help, but in giving Angharad a sense of companionship and purpose.

The Difference the Right Care Makes

Finding the right Caregivers wasn’t easy. Jo wanted more than just someone to assist with daily tasks—she wanted people who genuinely cared. People who would connect with Angharad, understand her needs, and help her feel like herself again.

Thankfully, she found them.

Angharad’s Caregivers became more than just helpers; they became friends. They brought laughter, conversation, and normality back into her life. Living in a small village meant social opportunities were limited, but having Caregivers who took the time to truly engage with her made a world of difference.

“I don’t think people realise how important companionship is,” Jo says. “It’s not just about care—it’s about feeling part of something, having someone to talk to, to share moments with.”

Angharad enjoying time with her Caregiver

 

What to Look for in a Caregiver

Jo’s experience highlights something many families face—the challenge of finding the right support. If you’re in a similar position, here are a few things to consider when looking for a Caregiver:

  • More than experience—look for connection. Practical skills are important, but so is personality. A great Caregiver isn’t just someone who knows what to do, but someone who takes the time to build a bond.
  • Think about interests. Finding a Caregiver who shares or encourages hobbies can make everyday life more engaging and enjoyable.
  • Ask the right questions. When interviewing Caregivers, go beyond qualifications. Ask about their approach, their motivations, and how they connect with the people they care for.
  • Trust your instincts. The right fit isn’t just about ticking boxes—it’s about feeling comfortable and reassured.

Safety and Quality of Life

For families, knowing a loved one is in safe hands brings peace of mind. But care isn’t just about safety—it’s about living well.

A good Caregiver will do more than just help with daily tasks. They’ll encourage independence, create meaningful moments, and ensure the person they support feels valued. Whether it’s engaging in a favourite activity, going for a walk, or simply having a good conversation, these moments matter.

If you’re thinking about care for a loved one, consider what will help them not just manage, but truly thrive.

Angharad before the onset of epilepsy

Finding Peace of Mind

Jo and Angharad’s story is a reminder of how much the right care can change lives. It’s not just about practical help—it’s about dignity, companionship, and a sense of normality.

For families facing similar journeys, the road isn’t always easy, but support is out there. And when you find the right Caregivers, they become more than just a service—they become part of the family.

If you’re considering care options, take the time to find the right people. Because, as Jo and Angharad have shown, the right support can truly make all the difference.

 

FAQs About Care and Companionship

What qualities should I look for in a caregiver?
Look for someone who is not only experienced but also kind, patient, and reliable. A great caregiver should make your loved one feel comfortable, respected, and genuinely cared for.

How can I help my loved one feel at ease with their caregiver?
Introduce them gradually and allow time for trust to build. It can help to involve your loved one in the selection process and encourage open communication about how they feel.

What if my loved one’s care needs change?
Care needs can evolve over time. Regular check-ins with the caregiver and care provider can help ensure the level of support remains right. Flexibility is key.

How do I find reliable caregivers?
Research, ask for recommendations, and don’t be afraid to ask lots of questions when speaking to care providers. A good agency will be transparent about their recruitment and training processes.

Can companionship really improve my loved one’s well-being?
Absolutely. Loneliness can have a big impact on mental and physical health, and having a caring, friendly presence in their life can make all the difference.

Discover More Support & Information For Your Care Journey

Visit our Learning Centre for expert articles, helpful videos, in-depth guides, and answers to common questions – helping you make informed care decisions with confidence.

Explore Now

 

 

Scroll to Top